i am asking for help to get my daughter & I out of a bad sitution

i am in a very mentally abusive marriage, and have been for 24yrs. my daughter is adopted as i had to have a hysterectomy when i was 20. my husband critises everything about me and everything i do. i could keep dealing with it if if was just me, but he has started doing the same thing to my daughter, and that just will not do. she is 15 and has enough to deal with just being a teenager, she needs to know home is where she is loved unconditionally, not treated with head games from her dad. i need to replace money i used from our savings before i can leave. everything we have is paid for, home with hot tub and pool, 4 vehicles,1 motorcycle, and a boat. i will get a good size settlement when i can get out and get a divorce. i have a good paying job, so if anyone could help either with a donation, or i would be willing to go into a loan contract with someone who might be willing to loan money with a good interest added on. i would be able to make monthly payments until i can get out, then i would pay loan off with settlement. i just need a little hand-up until i can get on my feet. please if anyone could help.............i want to give my daughter a normal, stressless next 3yrs before she leaves to maybe go off to college. my daughter does not get to go and do things other kids her age do, because he does her the same way he does me. he wants to keep us away from everything and everybody. thank-you.       my email address is marykb10@yahoo.com.